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Well said. Being a mother does not mean we are doormats or to be taken for granted!

Be like a penguin. Look after them with all your love. When they get to the age they no longer need you or respect you walk away. Your job in creation is done.

They will only learn when they have kids themselves. And we too were the same at one point or another with our parents.

No way I’m not the only one. I’m so sick and tired of the snobby attitudes and them walking around like they hate me. I’m over it!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this very painful but real and increasingly growing problem. My son is 39 and we have always been supportive in every way. He has come to live with us a number of times over the last 10 years bringing with him the baby mama drama of his children 's mothers. September 2019 he returned again as a result of yet another relationship break down and the Covid pandemic. By September 2021 it became clear that he was back on track earning a good salary and needed to move out and bHowever especially since his father passed sud!😮denly 2 years ago he has

Hi! Sorry for the delayed response! Thanks for reaching out and for your kind words! I was still writing but was hustling this morning. Your gestures were very sweet; thank you so much! I hope this episode helped you and that you stay connected with us. Have a great day and be well, my friend!

I didnt even listen to your words, but I feel your energy straight to my heart. I feel like give you a hug as i also need a hug from you as i feel you have a healing energy. Much love to you, from out my heart ( the Netherlands)

Mine is 27 and the funny thing is we were speaking the day before and then Mother’s Day came and the nasty energy came full force. My birthday was a week later and still no acknowledgement. I still celebrated. She doesn’t work. Won’t clean up behind herself unless it becomes nasty nasty like her attitude. The disrespect is unwarranted and at this point I want her out of my house. No pandemic so no more excuses. I refuse to walk on eggshells and I’m the one paying all the bills and caring for her pets. The pets (rabbit & dog) can stay but she has to go. She won’t even take the dog for his walks. Smh. I’m done!

Thank you.

I just want them to stop hurting me emotionally. I try my best but I just feel so beat down and empty. I moved to a new area and I’m doing my best to get healthy and to navigate these difficult relationships without giving up on them. I got a message out of the blue from one of my sons saying my 8 year old grandson talks crap about me. That’s all he said and I wonder why he feels the need to say something that would hurt my feelings for no reason. I don’t understand.

Very true. Thank you. ❤

My daughter favorite line I’m miserable and don’t want to see her happy. The minute she dumps her current man she wants to be buddy buddy. I’m done with her and her crap. This is nothing that the Bible didn’t tell us wouldn’t happen.

I’m seeing a reoccurring theme, if one parent is disrespected by the other parent, that is how your children treat you also

My 25 yr old daughter has 2 babies with an emotionally, verbally, and financially abusive partner. He is 30 and has manipulated his way into his mother's home to live with my daughter and their children. This is so that he doesn't have to work and support them. He send my daughter out to door dash with the children so that he doesn't have to take care of them while she is gone. The 2 yr old repeats the insults she hears from him. She has left him several times and told me about his anger and entitled attitude. Then she packs up the babies and goes right back within days. She leaves when im at work and then keep the children from me until he is sick of them and wants me to watch them or he kicks her out. She has been living this way for 4 years. 5 homes and 26 jobs between them in 4 years. I made a list so that I knew I wasn't crazy. She will not stay with me bc i refuse to take care of a 30 yr old man. Last week, when she again, i told her that burned her last bridge with me and not to come here the next time he wants a few days away from her. Its not fair to the children who want to live with me and are taken back over and over. I can't bear to watch it again. I've repeatedly made room for she and my granddaughters and support her in her journey to improve herself so that she can be a better parent to them. She leaves every time and seems not to care at all how this affects her children or myself. Her every effort in life is geared toward keeping her man. Frighteningly so. I would provide a home for my granddaughters ina heartbeat, but i have lost respect and hope for my daughter. I cannot live in HER misery.

I raised my son and daughter by giving all my food and all money in bank accounts, as single parent, now they mistreat me under the influence of their spouses. I didn't think ,they will abuse me one day, just to be in favour of their spouses simply they don't differentiat right or wrongs.

Happy mother's day 💐

Thank you for this. New subscriber.

I’m now realizing after watching this video and reading the comments that I’m not alone and I have to go into self preservation mode. For months I’ve been feeling nauseous and my anxiety is high I just can’t do it anymore. Im tired mentally and physically

And the same to you beautiful lady’

To any mother, that’s reading this you do the absolute best you can. We have to know when to let go ,like she said, if we don’t, we become mentally emotionally, spiritually, and physically ill ,take care of yourself moms.

Im a single father of four three girls and one boy my second oldest moved out on her own which is great but has shut me out of her life. My oldest is still at home but is mostly over her bf house my son is home and my youngest daughter is still in high school. I've tried to do the best I can put in the safety number one making sure they had a chance at life. These kids are ungrateful and don't care the sacrifices I've made just so they could have a roof over their head closing their back food in their bellies I always tell him I love them and I'm proud of them they have completely turned on me and become ungrateful some more than others this can't be life I don't know what to do I'm completely lost but I know that happiness looks like me getting out of the situation in separating myself from my own kids is messed up is that sounds. I deal with health problems and I don't need this I wish I had someone to talk to. Sometimes my oldest is very understanding and sometimes she hasn't sometimes my youngest is understanding but now that her deadbeat mom decides that she wants to come back into her life she's not the same. I really want to give up everything has been all about my kids and they know that they just don't care I do feel that it's a little different for a black man if I get upset over something that they did or didn't do it gets magnified. I tried to teach my son to be a strong black man goes in one ear out the other because he's listening to a bunch of females talk about his dad especially his deadbeat mom.

I have a 20yr old son. He has been physically violent with me once. He is fine as long as I give in to what he wants. However, he is not accustomed to me saying no. He lies about his school class attendance. I have paid out so much money, time, effort energy in an attempt to see him happy and have the things he wants. Now I have to fix my credit and finances because of overspending on him. Therefore, I cannot buy or cosign for a motorcycle for him. He has quit 4 jobs. He has had numerous accidents in his truck that I bought him. Therefore, his vehicle insurance is sky high. I helped him get his own apt and move out of my house. However, I find myself still helping him financially, running back and forth to the school to handle his business, managing his bills and his educational monies. I am exhausted. He has a vaping habit and spends a tremendous amount of money on the thc vapes. He blames me for his vaping. He blames me for everything. He says I abused him when he was six. I did hit him when he was younger. I told him I am so sorry for hurting him and I raised him the best I could. I'm thinking of going no contact with my son or getting an attorney to handle communications with him. I am just not sure what to do.

Children do not behave that way without them being under the negative influence of whatever. When we are not setting boundaries concerning that sort of thing we do them no favors.

Take some accountability

My adult son and I share a home. His 50 yr old friend has come into my home and taken over. My son is being manipulated by this man. I’m having to stay with my neighbor until he leaves. Help!

I honestly haven’t been the best to my parents at 25 but Life has humbled so has God. I made a vow to respect my parents the rest of my days. No backtalk no lies no laziness. Just plain respect. Any child that has disrespected theirs parents repent and don’t do it anymore ! God is please with obedience to parents !

Yesterday a woman at the gym interrupted my conversation with 2 different guys. Totally innocent conversations. One was a young man asking me about my tim Burton inspired tattoos and she got into the conversation low key flirting with this young man interrupting me while i was talking about cover-up. Then an old friend (male)haven't seen him in 15 years saw me and we started catching up. We weren't close to her and it was known that we haven't seen each other in years . She suddenly walks up to us to show us pictures of her when she used to be.....pretty?....skinny? Idk. She again interrupted a conversation i had with an old friend low key or high key flirting with him. I told her she looked beautiful. I complimented her yet i felt like i was feeding her ego in a bad way. I left the gym and still this morning im kind of bummed out by this. Im confused and idk hurt? Idk her very well but i dont like when i feel like a women is competing with me like that. Am i wrong for feeling, ike this? I considered a girls girl but i dont like her and i dont want her near me. Am i an a hole?

u call the police on them get them out of ur home

u ghost them and there kids and live without them

You ignore ! Walk away ! Pray for them for their salvation ! You may be angry frustrated and feel used and abused . Learn to keep your head up high walk in dignity and realize that it’s not you it’s them and keep on thriving .

You’re very classy only a self aware smart and feminine woman could even make a video like this.

Imagine abuse from a 5 year old!!!Physically and Verbally and I’m just the nanny. I’m here on UA-cam trying to research this and there’s nothing really about it .

My someone in the background was my own mother.

Thank God my children aren't disrespectful. They are grown, with their own unique personalities and emotions. They are individuals who carry themselves gracefully and honorably, not contributing to the issues in society. Bless God🙏

This is amazing. Your wisdom is so appreciated. I'm not sure my situation will change but your insight is incredible. You are so right about this generation being so different. Thank you.

I hurt dealing with this and my oldest daughter. I 😢 I just don’t even have enough words to explain how bad my daughter has treated me and has called the police on me for no reason. I let her and my grands live in my new home, new husband, I graduated with my RN, drove 2 hours to class, there and back, and had depression! God brought me out of abusive marriages and I always put my children first! My 32 year old daughter tries to make me feel like I was a terrible mom. I was not a terrible mother! I was always helping and doing for my children! It is a betrayal! I hurt so bad!!! But I pray God mends our relationship even though she has hurt me. She says we are just related and I’m not her mother! Oh my God it hurts but I have to move on. I have to heal and have peace. I’m 52 years old and I never ever hurt this bad. My heart is broken. Pray for me please and thank you.😭😭😭💔

Funny thing, is my son wants respect, but he neither shows respect or speaks respectfully. I’m tired and I no longer want anything to do with him.

When they know your love is unconditional they just become too comfortable. Happening to me now.

Narc parents unite the way she looks at herself disgusting

my boat has sunk. dealin with my 44 yr old son.. i am mentally burnt out... sick of his unmotivated and no desire to change his life... but, think i am to tolerate his dyfunctional sick enviroment...done

Most of these comments sound like parents who dont like the fact that their children are different from them now that they're adults labeling it as disrespect and then playing victim.

its the helping drowning person mindset

Yup amen to this

What about if the child is ten? How do you handle that? She's being manipulated by her mother, today i found out she blocked me on her phone. Ot hurts seeing my daughter slipping out of my hands like that.

My daughter is estranged and I don’t get to see my granddaughter. It’s been seven years, the average estrangement is five years. I can only say that I am no longer living in shame.

I feel like God stuck this 5 year old video in my face today to a reason. Thank you so much. I really like the name of your channel too.

Yes there is someone in the background causing trouble and control! Thank you..

I thought it was just me Smh😢

You're actually the problem

Cut out toxicity from your lives in any form! Family can be very toxic too!